I kinda need some advice. Anyone want to help?

[Lady_Ilona]

i think it would have benn funner to just alter his reply abit.. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[salomeuk]

Hun I really don't know what is best to do. Can you talk to your dad about it - or another family member? The problem with getting involved is that they may not be able to help her without her consent anyway - and would she then be mad at you for "interfering"?

However, it sounds like maybe she is crying out for help by telling you what she did about not wanting t play the game of life anymore. Perhaps you could have a quiet word with a doctor, just to ask advice about what if anything you can do???

I'm sorry I can't be more helpful. Doesn't help that different countries have different systems for healthcare, and I only know anything about the UK.

As for the driving - I am with what the others said, do your best to find a way to get your license, actively look into that and it gives your mum one less thing to stress at you over. However if she's ill, she will doubtless find something else. Try not to let it get to you - I have suffered with depression several times myself, sometimes for years at a time, and you see the world as a very twisted place and take it out on those you love. Or at least, I did!

(((Hugs)))

[Magenta_Feelings]

I really don't know what to say.

Your Mom is seriously ill and needs help.

I know this is pretty hard on you right now, but please don't blame your mom too much. She is ill and as saleomeuk said, she will view everything in a different light at the moment. 'She means not what she does'.

She proberbly will be mad at you for interferring, but you have to do it anyway. She may give you a hard time over it but in the long-run it will be worth it if she recovers.

Were here for you when you need to vent over this. You gotta get her someone to talk to too.

*huge hugs*